Chicory

Negative state: self-pity, self-love, possessive, demanding, hurt and tearful
Positive state: love and care that gives freely to others

Those are who very mindful of the needs of others; they tend to be over-full of care for children, relatives, friends, always finding something that should be put right. They are continually correcting what they consider wrong, and enjoy doing so. They desire that those for whom they care should be near them.